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The folks at Lane Change have come up with five ways to celebrate International Women’s Day today. Learn more about 'em at http://lanechange.me/about/ . 1. Share with us your lady ...

The folks at Lane Change have come up with five ways to celebrate International Women’s Day today. Learn more about 'em at http://lanechange.me/about/ .

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1. Share with us your lady heroes

We all have a woman in our life who has inspired us. It might be your grandmother who at sixteen emigrated and built a whole new life in a foreign place. Or maybe it’s a sister, aunt or friend who every day boldly takes on life with a kind of style and grace that amazes you. And maybe you don’t even know the person: it could be a scientist, an artist, an editor, a CEO, a professor – you name it.

But the one thing these women have in common is that they are embodying an awesomeness that we should tip our hats off to.

Head to our Facebook event page and upload an image and a caption as to why you’ve nominated them.

Alternatively, you can celebrate a “lady hero” that isn’t even a lady! If you want to honour a guy who has done his fair share for womankind – maybe your Dad who raised his daughters to be awesome – we’d love to see those as well.

2. Mentor a woman

In 2010, only 15 of the companies on the Fortune 500 list were headed by women. And according to the US Bureau of Labor Statistics, women made up just 25.4% of chief executives in America. (And things aren’t much better in the UK). It’s an improvement on the past, but still far from parity.

The answer? Give working girls a leg-up through mentorshi

And you don’t necessarily have to be a CEO or in senior management (although that would be great too!) Maybe you’re a great freelancer or small business owner. Even if you’re in a junior role, you have skills and advice you can pass on to an intern or student. Together we can build a generation of women who are confident, skilled and make smart career decisions.

Get started with this great post from writer Rachel Hills about mentor relationships.

3. Support women overcome adversity

Global poverty and women’s rights is an issue that goes hand in hand. Despite the fact that women make up 50% of the population, they comprise of over 70% of those living in extreme poverty. Many women face a future with little opportunity. They might be married at 14, pregnant by 16, and without any educational prospects they, and their daughters, become trapped in a cycle of poverty.

Watch this fantastic video from The Girl Effect to understand the situation better, and donate to one of their many projects around the world that works to improve the lives of girls in poverty by keeping them at school. Meanwhile microfinance organizations like Kiva enable women to start their own businesses with huge flow-on effects into their family and community.

Here are a few other organizations you can consider donating to or becoming involved with: Girl Effect, Give2Girls, Global Fund for Women, UN Women, Say No(End Violence Against Women), Opportunity International, Miss Representation, Zonta.

4. Don’t be afraid of the F-word

Feminism doesn’t have to be a dirty word, nor does it have to be a women’s only club. In fact, achieving women’s rights wouldn’t be possible without male feminists. And feminism doesn’t require you become a full-time activist. It could start off with something as simple as reading a blog post or watching a video that tackles women’s issues or female identity.

Here are a few places to get you started: Jezebel (blog), Feministe (blog), Bitch Magazine, Miss Representation (doco), Facebook COO Sheryl Sandberg on why we have too few women leaders (TED talk).

5. Speak out! The world is listening

A lot of us take women’s rights for granted, but on March 8, why not dedicate one blog post, one Facebook status, one tweet, one email, or one conversation to a gender related issue that matters to you. You could use it to promote a women’s organization that you think is doing great work. Or maybe talk about some aspect of our world that you believe gives women the raw deal, and make suggestions as to how to make it better.

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People would much prefer I was Spider Man than the reality of my actual western-ness, which is way too audacious for any one with regular human powers.

by James

Spider Man, Spider Man. I get this at least five times a day, on the packed wet subway, in bars, eating baozi on the street in Beijing. At first, it was a completely unnerving experience to be approached by complete strangers demanding that I am a spandex-clad super-hero underneath my button-down Peter Parker work clothes. However I’ve always fantasised about being an undercover vigilante. I’m quite chuffed really that I’m finally being recognised en masse (even if im riding the coat tails of legitimate fame).

I don’t actually think it’s because I look that much like Tobey Maguire. My half Greek friend in India has been called Spider Man too. It’s a combination of things, my face, obviously, and my hair. But also in some literal way, the ability when walking around here to draw an almost super-power awe at my western mannerisms, my subconscious disregard for minute social conventions, my default egalitarianism, my bounding enthusiasm. People would much prefer I was Spider Man than the reality of my actual western-ness, which is way too audacious for any one with regular human powers.

I would much rather be Spider Man too, than the alternative cast: a sensationalist, overbaked cynical White man, already jaded and drunk on my own intellectual arrogance. I’ve seen some tired expats wearing this around, and I want to avoid this at all costs.

Middle ground is so difficult to find, and every assumption I’ve made has been wrong. No, humour isn’t an effective way. No, trying too hard has made it worse. No, shutting up simply shuts me out and shits me off. No one here has asked about me, who I am, where I’m from, what I do, who my friends are, do I play a musical instrument, whats my favourite foods/colours/songs. To do so would be an attack on my privacy, and would display a curiosity unbecoming.

So for the moment I’m Spider Man. I’m the powerful, the unknown, the untouchable. Mystery has built around me in my work place like some kind of visiting dignitary. No one has seen the real Spider Man.

And for now I think we’re both exceptionally happy with this arrangement, for now we’re actually doing all we can to fortify these positions. And at least in this, we’re sharing a common purpose.

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